The tea for today is that when trans men wear makeup they're accused of their gender but when cis men wear makeup they're breaking gender norms.
That's so fucked. I've been questioning my gender recently because I like feminine things and I had a crisis about it. I was more concerned over others' views of me than my own view of myself. I'm a trans man and I like wigs and makeup. Maybe I'll wear a skirt one day. Maybe I'll wear a dress. That doesn't make me any less of a man and myself.
I need to stop stressing over society's ways and just be me.
Thank you to those still by me as I find myself and thank you to those who have supported me through this process.
Not something I'd usually post but whatever because I have my gender clinic appointment on Tuesday!!! Ahhhhhh.
I know that nothing will happen immediately but its a step in the right direction. Hopefully in a year from now I'll be post top surgery or have an upcoming date for the surgery.
Thank you to all for supporting my transition thus far. It means a lot 💕
Happy pride month guys!
Never feel rushed to find yourself or a label you fit. I feel comfortable just being me and doing what I do. I was focused for so long on trying to find out exactly what my gender/sexuality was/is. I decided one day to not stress and just see where life takes me. Come to find out I'm not cis and I'm not straight.
I personally don't really identify with any labels bc then my gender/sex would be "too complicated."
I just say trans/pan/gay to make life easier. Lol.
Long story short, call me Parker/Dimitri and use he/him pronouns for me. I'm hella queer and don't really care about these words ✌🏼
Have a happy pride month and stay safe!! 🌈🌈