Make it a point this year, month, week, or lifetime to engage in and cultivate only meaningful relationships. And if any don’t feel meaningful, ask yourself why. Then ask if it’s worth your energy, any more of your thoughts, and any of your heart to continue it. And in the end, if you decide it is, give your whole beautiful self to loving and supporting it.
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Practice this on yourself. Give your whole being to your self. Love it, cultivate it, support it, push it, hold it, make space for it, drink a glass of wine with it when it needs it, listen to it, dance wildly with it, laugh with it late into the evening when no one else is awake, sing loudly with it when everyone else can hear, be silent with it so you can hear everything it can’t say, tell it the truth when no one else will even when it hurts, tell it it’s okay to be hurt sometimes because this world isn’t perfect or fair, be cautious and at the same time reckless with it so that you can grow, and mostly, just see it for exactly who it is: untamable star dust. ⭐️✨