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AC Dumlao ⭐️ They/Them/Theirs

🇵🇭 Trans #Enby. #GenderFULL fashion + radical selfcare. ✏️ : @hella_pinay, @autostraddle ⭐️ Creator of #CallMeThey on Facebook. ✊🏽 #BLACKLIVESMATTER.

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😎😎😎 // giving my talk “brown/round/here/queer.” at @ithaca_aaa tonight! 🤓 #menswearselfcare #ithaca


Making things happen ⚡️ #menswearselfcare #speakingtour


I...uh...I mean... [swipe] #menswearselfcare #reductress #instagay


Hello from JFK! ✈️ See ‘cuse soon! #menswearselfcare


I almost forgot that it’s #MEMEMONDAY. If you’re not following @femme4memes, then what are you doing?! ☀️ // I have a 7:30 flight and I should be in bed! Can’t wait to update y’all on my upstate collegiate lecture adventures soon ✈️ #menswearselfcare


Feeling content today ☀️. Flying tomorrow for a week of speaking engagements, but first, we’re off to the Korean spa 😌 #menswearselfcare


TODAY AT 3 EST! Stay tuned to the NAPAWF*New York City Facebook for a livestream!! (@napawfnyc): “Queering Asian American Feminism” brings together thought leaders and artists to gather and share thoughts on the current state of our Asian American/ #feminist movements, contextualized through the LGBTQ+ lens. 4/22 / New Women Space (@newwomenspace) / Brooklyn, NYC / 3 PM Performances and #panel discussion with — Jes Tom (@jesthekid) AC Dumlao (omg) Parissah Lin (@yellowjacketscollective) Bex Kwan (@bex.kwan) Moderated by Julie Ae Kim *Please RVSP through #Eventbrite link to secure your spot (in my bio)- seating at the venue will be limited! **Tickets are donation-based, $5-15 suggested #donation based on your ability to give. All donations will go toward sustaining the #Asian American #Feminism event series. For those who are unable to donate the minimum of $1, please feel free to reach out to ***NAPAWF*NYC will be live-streaming the event for those who'd like to tune in (and donate) #menswearselfcare


As a #queer #enby, I’m completely obsessed with queer enby artist @em16 and have been planning to save up my coins for the opportunity to receive such beautiful #art. @em16 is holding a giveaway right now that you need to check out! #followfriday #ff Info below: #Repost @em16 with @get_repost ・・・ 30k giveaway! Winner receives 1 hour of free tattoo time which can be used alone or applied to a larger #tattoo at my #Brooklyn studio within 1 year. Low income folks to the front! Thank you for your support all these years, I am absolutely blown away! DIRECTIONS 1. Follow me and re-post one or several of my tattoos, tagging the photo @em16, and hashtagging #30kem16 (it’s crucial you tag the actual photo @em16 because hashtagged photos are only showing in searches when they are high on the algorithm) 2. Winner will be drawn May 1. Make sure your profile is set to “public” on that day. Entries that don’t follow all directions will be disqualified


#tbt to our first sticker giveaway! Definitely planning on giving away more #CALLMETHEY stickers just in time for Pride Month! xo AC #Repost @just2ndtrumpet with @get_repost ・・・ @menswearselfcare thank you so much for these adorable stickers! I’m so excited to be able to express such an important part of me in sticker form! @ambivalentginger I want to give you one because you showed me them in the first place!


I assume it’s not cheating if I’m my own #theycrushtuesday? // My hair is doing silly things in between haircuts but I’m taking it in stride! // I used to bemoan my brown/round face. Now I cherish it. I sing of myself. // Check my story for more they-goodness 😘 #menswearselfcare #gif #microfloral


It’s #mememonday! Shout out to everyone on their own gender journeys 😚 #menswearselfcare


Tell me: how are you celebrating #selfcaresunday?! 🌸 My past week was busy and this week ahead looks even busier. After an out-of-town day trip yesterday and rehearsal this morning, I am wiped. Depleted. Little creep ins of depression are afoot. This evening looks like a guilt free nap, cooking for me and C, and watching the Beyonce Coachella performance while doing a face mask. It’s also allowing myself to be present, to (try to) not worry about my Monday to-do list, to my next week’s upstate NY travels. It’s taking the time I need. So, again: what about you? Comment below! #menswearselfcare


Just yr pal in pastels 💐 #menswearselfcare #sodepop #thrifted


Happy weekend, babes!🐠 Tell me what you’re doing this weekend in the comments! Tomorrow I’m off to Connecticut for a birthday party then on Sunday I have musical rehearsal for Guys & Dolls! #menswearselfcare #fishbowlbaby


Holy moly, I am obsessed with my new banner from @annamschultz! It’s hanging in my cubicle at work, and it’s making me the smile-iest 😍 #CallMeThey #menswearselfcare


New #interview alert! I had the pleasure of speaking with Molly from #GenderReveal. Link in bio to listen to me in your ears! #podcast “In this week’s episode, Molly speaks with activist AC Dumlao (they/them), the founder of Call Me They and @menswearselfcare. Topics include: 🔸Celebrating “genderFULL fashion” as self-care. 🔸Shifting your gender presentation to try to appeal to folks you’re dating (yikes!). 🔸Writing an open letter to cis folks angrily sharing news of the transgender military ban. 🔸The importance of TLDEF’s free legal name change services.” #menswearselfcare


My end of April is packed and I just can’t wait! Links to all in bio 💐 #menswearselfcare


👾🔮💜⚛️ + had a great time filming with @queerkidstuff, teaching young folks about the gender spectrum 🌈! Can’t wait to share the video with y’all! #menswearselfcare