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Heather

California curvy lady / modeling / artist / #bodypositivity / nerd 🤓 photography account ➡️@ohgoodnessheather

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Sometimes you have to let go of someone not because you're giving up on them or don't love them... But because you need to choose self preservation first. Doesn't mean that I don't love them with all of my heart and believe that they can become a better person for themselves.... It just means that how they act towards me right now is crushing my self worth and when I'm already battling #bpdproblems, trying to not return to drinking and #selfharm... I can't let myself be open to such disappointment. I matter too. My life is a wreck too at times. I matter. I wish things were different. But they aren't. And recovering means for the first time in my life choosing me. Even if it's one of my hardest goodbyes. /// #brokenheart #selflove #respectyourself #boundaries #chooseyourself #respect #love

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#flashbackfriday to something I could really use right now. // #redhead #shootingrange #ak47

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May the force be with you 🔥 // #nerdybabes #starwars #heruniverse #fangirls #sexynerds

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Just a curvy girl trying to smile in a world full of people telling her she's not good enough since before she could remember. From day one we are told how to be women. Don't be too fat. Don't be too skinny. Boobs too big boobs too small. Don't be too tall to intimidate men- put the heels away. Don't be too sexual - they will think you're a whore and no one will marry you. It's exhausting. So in the moments we can just laugh and be ok with ourselves despite what the rest of the world wants...I will celebrate that. /// #curvygirl #forever21plus #redheadsdoitbetter #plussizelife #bodypositivity #sizesexy #natualbeauty #thickthighssavelives #honormycurves #effyourbeautystandards

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Anyone else excited for the Detective Pikachu movie? I know I am 😍😍 /// #plussizelife #nerdybabes #redheadsdoitbetter #curvywomen #loveyourself #sizesexy

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They always tend to have claws though.... 💔 #brokenheart

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I was about 50 pounds heavier during this set of photos but they are still hot as hell. Embrace your body at every stage of the journey. Photo by : @skoggonerogue ❤️❤️ // #bodypositivemodel #selflove #bodypositivity #curvymodel #corset #thickthighssavelives #redheadsdoitbetter

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#HappyMonday and remember everyone you do not have time in your precious life that treat you as if you are disposable. You're a mother fuckin’ treasure. Photo by : @cwehephoto // #thickthighssavelives #redheadsdoitbetter #plussizemodel #pinupmodel #pinupphotos #torridfashion #retrochic #pinupfashion #selflove

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Rescue kitty project : Pickles. After feeding him for a few weeks he's in the laundry room chilling out with that pheromones. The parking lot he had been dumped in was dangerous and full of traffic. Even if we can't rehome him in a house at least somewhere safer. :) his sister who I've named ”rita” won't let us get her but I have hope! :)

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Rejection is protection. That's what I am choosing to believe. Their rejection is not a reflection of what I have to offer. ❤️ with #bpd it makes it hard to focus my faith on that truth. But I choose to get up today, go for a run and fight. Happy Sunday, internet friends 💕 // #redhead #mentahealthawareness #mentalhealth #borderlinepersonalitydisorder

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When you're being sexy and all of a sudden your kitten photobombs you 🙄 // #plussize #thickmodels #redheadsdoitbetter #curvymodel #plussizemodel #thickthighssavelives

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