Today's thoughts, pt III: And it's the Lover that'll be the first to disrespect the stranger if the stranger hurts the Lover's feelings. And, the Lover is also the first to give more respect when the stranger tends to the Lover's desires. The real truth in respecting others though is to consider the good traits in the Lover, the Magician, and the Warrior. The good Warrior gives out respect to those they don't know, out of courtesy. The good Magician can criticise the actions of others and determine whether a person's behaviour deems them worthy of their respect. The good Lover learns to forgive and forget. Throughout it all though, you should never hold grudges against another person, and you should never give your undying respect to somebody if they don't offer the same level of respect back, no matter what their relationship to you is.