Hey there! It’s me again 👋🏻 One of my lovely friends made a video about her miscarriage and she highlights a lot of important questions in it. Among other thing, this can happen to anyone. ANYONE. Or how to approach someone who has experienced something like this (in the book, Modern Loss has a great summary of it)‼️ What do or don’t say to someone who mourns. That they don’t need stories about others, because it’s like giving birth. Everyone has a good or bad story about it, but it doesn’t help.
And not to forget about the dads, as their losses are at least as big as our. #dadsgrievetoo
For me Instagram helped a lot processing, because I contacted here with a lot of amazing moms who had similar experience. The thought itself that you are not alone, because other people dare to talk about their pain too, helps. A lot. Your mood can be like a rollercoaster and it’s fine. And every day you will think about the life you’ve lost. Just beyond one point, you can think back without crying.
Because life is not just a game and a fairy tale. (Who knows what do I quote? ☺️😉) I’m sorry that it’s only available in Hungarian, but if any hungarian mommy wanna see it, you can find the link in @verusszabo ‘s bio.
#miscarriage #miscarriageawareness #stillborn #supporteachother #talktoeachother #itsimportant #angelbaby #missyou