♡LOVE - IS HE / SHE THE RIGHT ONE? - POST
◇I'm not a love expert. But this question has occupied mankind since ancient times.
♧Today i met new people and the topic of long partnerships came up. I must honestly say, I had only long-standing relationships until 5 years ago, but since then no more.
So to speak clearly, again and again after half a year to one year failed the attempt.
♧Why did I never succeed? I have understood the one reason for a little longer. The other one must from the beginning have a lust for a true love relationship or be ready. And it also has to be spoken from the beginning. Otherwise I get caught up in suspicions and illusions ect. ♡Communication is the key to almost everything in a relationship. ♤But what I learned today was a hit for me. He said: It just has to fit! Everything else is as if I wanted to press a dice into a hole. It just does not fit. ♧That means for me, if the common way from the beginning feels difficult, hard and uphill, then it is not the right one. My feeling already tells me the truth. If it feels bad most of the time, it's usually bad too. And there I count the time of not seeing too. ♧Comparable to a hiking trail. If he is all the time rocky, uphill, full of scrub and obstacles and is a single fight ---》wrong way - no relationship partner! Otherwise if the trail is big, bright and makes most of the time fun ---》 right way - right relationship partner. ◇Do not misunderstand: Storms and thunderstorms must be to clean the air. But that's another topic. ♤Sometimes I just have to realize for myself that the other one is my mirror image and that I am not ready for a relationship - as much as I wish. ♡ It will kick the right one at the right time in my life & maeby he is here allrady & and with him I can then grow into a relationship. Free and we ourselves. ♡Your soulmate exists. You just have to stop pressing the cube into a hole. Free yourself and your soulmate comes by itself. Because for every human being, also for you and for me, the universe has several soulmates.
And love never sleeps.
♡Love, Namaste 🙏❤ ●Oil on canvas ● Name: The flower of love ●Size: 70 x 100cm with 3d frame (3,8cm deep)