😠Emotions and surfing🏄🏼♂️
Do you can control your emotions? I want to talk about surfing.
Often time we meet aggressive people on lineup, who ready to fight for each wave, and sow negative, they forget the real goal of surfing.
Such people have one goal - to prove in an aggressive manner how much better they are than others, to prove it to themselves and everyone around ...
The question is - why? What will happens when you prove it to all? Satisfy your ego and maybe for a little while you calm down? But for our ego is always not enough, so this is an endless struggle with oneself.
There is certainly another option, professionally prove that you are the best at competitions! But I think, aggressive surfers will not be interested in this, because, there you need to observe the rules, respect each other, and fight for the first places with those who maybe better than you. And aggressive people can’t cope with their emotions, they will lose, because they will be focused on their feelings.
And what is the option for such people? Reconsider your attitude to yourself. If you are can’t control your negative emotions, you will never solve the problem if you sometimes pour out all your negative on people who are not guilty in your problems.
Again, it is not a secret, that this anger towards oneself. Do you ever thinking, why you don’t like yourself so much? Because you didn’t live up to your parents' expectations? Didn’t you prove to them that you are the best? For they loved you more, well, or just loved, and not demanded and forced you? And why did you even have to prove it?
In childhood, okay, we didn’t know other way to live, and unfortunately this affected our adult life. So now, when we are reasonable , have passed kind of “school of life”, and we are already formed as a personality, objectively evaluate our life and ask yourself - Why do you need to be the best and have everything the best?