People who have dealt with physical or verbal abuse will say sorry constantly even for no reason. Yes it can get annoying at times but we just need you to be patient with us. Whenever we do something we think is wrong we will apologize constantly to avoid a conflict. We know we wouldn't have a conflict with you, but we are scared the past will repeat itself if we don't apologize. It's really just a verbal flinch almost like you flinch when you are about to be hit. We have been hit enough in the past physically, verbally, mentally, or emotionally. Please whatever you do, if you know someone who apologizes a lot, be gentle with them, eventually they will slowly get better with apologizing at only moments they need to be sorry for. A major part of this though, yelling does not make it stop, ever. It makes it even worse for the person because they have heard that voice raise somewhere in their past and every time they heard that voice raise, they were taking the punches physically or emotionally. Please, be patient and gentle with someone who apologizes constantly, because sometime in their past, others haven't been so patient or gentle..
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