Whether it was yourself or someone you know, unless you’ve been there, you will not understand. As “Black” Americans, we’re conditioned that having “feelings” is weak. Caring for others is “not minding your business”. Black men need to have “as many hoes possible”. Black women are demanding (only because they see what’s going on and tired of it, so they up their standards). We destroy our own people, because we ignore to help them. We unconsciously ignore them, because we were conditioned to always put the next down and COMPETE (Read the William Lynch Letter from 1712). Take that letter and throw it in the Black American Bible too. We have a history, as did Jesus, but we follow his history, more closely than we follow our owns... Slavery was more about mental abuse than physical. That’s why, as a culture, we’re so f**ked up, because we’re either studying the wrong things or not studying enough...