FAMILY (aka Team, Army, Crew, Troop, Tribe,...) is most effective when the members play their position. The ingredients to this successful unit includes: Respect, Trust, Experience and most importantly... a Good Leader/Mentor. Attempting to move forward without placing the aforementioned qualities to its responsible member will halt any & all progress. Remember: If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.
Analogy: Marvel Comic's Fantastic 4 involves a member who can stretch, become invisible, possess super strength and lastly, a flammable being. This team embraces their individual abilities and form a unity that make the world Marvel at their success. God bless you, your family and may you all be FANTASTIC together. Can it happen? . . . Fuk-Yeah!!! (I Can't Hear You). . . Can It Happen? . . . FEQUIERE!!! LOL!!!