MGTOW 101: Marrying Skeletons
The only way you will find the right partner is by introducing your true selves with masks off and putting your skeletons on the table before everything else. If they can love the darkest and worst of you, then they will surely love the best.
I may be one of the people who speak on relationships from this perspective but I truly believe it's the only way to success. You must mesh on dark side levels more than light side levels.
For example, let's say a porn industry producer meets his wife as a pornstar and falls in love with her, they will have a better relationship than a man who meets this same pornstar in a gym and falls in love with her mask. The first scenario will be more natural, honest and free with each other.
I like to use James bond as an example as well. He usually had a dark side unicorn and a light side unicorn. The light side was the geeky computer analyst that helped him through the missions. She was normally a good girl, educated and stayed out of trouble. The women that bond really falls in love with is the woman who is into the assassin line of work like him. If he meets an assassin and falls in love it will be an honest and pure relationship from the start. If another man meets that female assassin at the gym and falls in love, later having her reveal her true profession, it won't last as long.
This is what I mean by pairing your dark sides up. YOUR SKELETONS SHOULD FALL IN LOVE BEFORE YOUR MASK DOES and this is why most relationships fail, people aren't being real with themselves or their partners about who they are. Many will never do this, thus never experiencing true unconditional love and freedom.
Being human means we are complex, society imposes unrealistic standards and expectations on both male and female. Drop societies mask and reveal your skeletons.