How to diffuse a situation ☝🏼
-Stop taking shit so personally
Lighten the fucking mood. 🕺🏻
YOU HAVE THE POWER 👊🏼
....but seriously you really do. 🤓
Life is hard enough as it is.
To battle with your partner after a long day is just a waste of life.
Sure nobody deserves to be anybody’s punching bag. I’m not taking about offering yourself up to be shit on whenever your partner has a bad day.
I’m just saying that in healthy relationships, people have bad days. And you being their #1 have a unique opportunity to be their safe place, their person who knows them better than they know themselves.
The person who knows that they are just hungry or tired or just need to go take a walk alone to let off steam and that that’s okay.
All I’m saying is that in moments when your partners cup is full, take a step back to ask yourself what’s really going on and how you in that moment can help.
So many times a simple hug, a kiss on the forehead, a funny joke can completely change your lovers mood. But that can only happen if you are strong enough to know that
ITS NOT YOU
THEY ARE JUST HAVING A BAD DAY.