As a rule,
I surround myself with friends that build each other up, my friends are incredible humans.
I truly see beauty in every female form and despise all of the stipulations from society of how women must look and what body shape is in fashion at the time, that is irrelevant (and bloody stupid). Women are beautiful hard bodied, women are beautiful petite, women are beautiful soft. Once a hard bodied women said to me, "She is beautiful, but her body is a bit soft".
-"Yes she is beautiful, why are you talking about her body?".
Women must build each other up, and we must educate each other that we do not want to hear words about women that are irrelevant, the older generation can be the worst for this as they were brought up under so many stipulations of how women must be. 70 year old man, "She is a big girl, but a lovely girl", 🙄 We are the generation that can truly change this, we are the first generation that is seeing all shapes and sizes, all personalities flourish, all kinds of careers and life paths and have much more freedom to choose. Choose kindness, choose love, choose to banish stupid talk, build a sister up so that we don't need to hear bogan bullshit anymore xx