A little gist.
I never realized I was short changing myself until husby brought my attention to it. Now that I know, I have decided to act on it. Ask me what?
For awhile, when I sort out the laundered cloths, I find myself organizing everyone's wardrobes except mine. I just pile my washed clothes anyhow in my wardrobe. I'm not the disorganized type, I like my things neat and easily assessable. God knows why I just left mine unattended too. Maybe I just felt I needed more time to sort mine out, maybe Bonikepe kept distracting me, maybe Modalayo needed my attention too, maybe I had food cooking in the kitchen or I decided to take a little nap when I had the extra time, maybe...just maybe.
So can you imagine why I decided to act? Before I did the laundry yesterday evening, I decided to sort out the previously washed ones. You can imagine the look on my face and how irritated I got when I saw my husbys wardrobe disorganised. I had previously sorted his singlets, boxers, drycleaned natives and cooperate shirts, jeans, in each row. But everything looked like a baby's unorganized box of toys! I was pissed. As I patiently rearranged all, I wondered why he kept on doing these. I concluded that it was because he waited to the last minute when he was in a hurry to select his outfit for the day. In the process of being in a hurry, he disoraganises his wardrobe again.
This morning when he was preparing for his day, I had told him, "sweetheart, when you take your clothes, please take them gently from your wardrobe and don't scatter the whole place for me again oh". He then said, "me that I'm the cleanest person in this house. See you talking to a clean-fine boy like me". You needed to see the sarcastic look on my face like...For where? He seeing my reaction then said, "see your own wardrobe, I'm I not neater than you are?" We both began to laugh. I knew he knew I was the one responsible for his neatness.
So I have decided that this evening, I'd pour out all the clothes from my wardrobe and reorganize it. I'd do me first, I'd think of me, sacrifice for me too, make me neat and leave his for a while 😜😝😝then we will see who is neater.
Don't come and beg me oh 😂