social body standards.
its fucking disgusting, im honestly so happy that on this community there is people like me who support eachother and not drag eachother down on our looks. honestly, just fuck it. fuck it all. who cares if society says "your fat" or "your to skinny" or anything that puts down your body, your beautiful. idc. let's just make that a word that can describe everyone. honestly, our body is us. it's pretty fucking amazing like we walk and talk and have feelings. that's some fucking whack shit. putting people down for the way they look and the way they were made, is utter bullshit. this problem is mostly for women, just because of social media influence, but does affect men too. having society put on them that they need to be fit, and tanned and have abs, it poses a challenge for guys to fit into that, and that is a concern that needs to be talked about as much as women's body standards, today, I'm focusing on women. what is considered "beauty" has changed throughout the years. and all have been completely different. honestly: flowers and christmas lights are completely different, but both have been described as beautiful, what is the difference between us? the "ideal" body is to be skinny, and have curves in all the right places, a thigh gap and all that shit. those people look like that with work, hard ass work and confidence. confidence is something we can all try to achieve with our bodies. if you have self confidence and love yourself, your set. you have curves, big boobs and thick thighs, yo that's pretty fucking cool. skinny, small boobs, that's awesome bro, fucking amazing. like a lot of people I see generally are pretty fucking beautiful. It's okay for people to have preferences of course, but they shouldn't be the main thing people look for. lets say you love someone, you love them for all their good and bad parts about them, generally looks doesnt play apart in love, that would be lost in a way. if someone truly loves you, it means they love all of you. society is changing and its changing for the better. it's up to us, it's up to you, to be a fucking amazing person. fuck society's standards, love yourself.