I lovvvvvve me some spontaneity (when it’s planned, of course). LOL.
Okay, but seriously, how many of you are with me?!
I used to think I was super spontaneous, until I met my sweetie pie. On weekends, our convos usually go like this…
Me: What do you want to do?
Ben: I don’t know.
Me: How about we take a walk on the beach.
Ben: That sounds good.
Me: What time should we go?
Ben: Can we just play it by ear?
Blame it on my Libra moon, I like balance and harmony. And that includes being able to plan my life accordingly.
But what I realized lately, with a firm nudge from our coach (yes, Ben and I have a coach together…dude, being a couple is hard enough without help, right?!) is that I need to give up the reigns completely from time to time to practice trusting.
Allowing Ben to be in charge of what we are doing, when we are going, what I need to wear, food, and anything else. 😬
The outcome so far?
After me sitting around holding my tongue yesterday, resisting to ask like an annoying kiddo: What are we doing? When are we leaving?…he ended up taking me to Monterey for some holiday festivities, peppermint hot cocoa, Christmas light viewing and an overall awesome time.
It was so relaxing not knowing anything. Not feeling like I had to plan or be responsible. And, since I wasn’t so worried about planning the day, we actually had a really great couple hour convo in the morning about healthcare, politics, foreign relations (you know, light stuff) 😉
I highly suggest that we all practice these types of days, even if you aren’t in partnership. Practice with your mom (that might be an adventure…lol). Practice with your bestie. Practice with your dog.
The result that this creates for business?
More TRUST and FLOW. Skills that I teach inside the Radiantpreneur Rising Mastermind, and are necessary if you want to feel fully expressed and free in biz.
There is always a next level of leaning into these edges (unwinding the tendency to be so plany-plany is unwinding the masculine and honing our feminine).
So, who is joining me for more Spontaneous Sundays?! Comment "ME" if it's something you think you'll try out!👇