The deepest human fear is the fear of ‘not being good enough’, and therefore ‘not being loved’. But the most prevalent way in which that fear is manifesting itself, I am coming to believe, is in our avoidance of taking responsibility.
Look around you.
Everyone is attempting to handball the responsibility to someone else.
They handball the responsibility of our relationship, to our partner.
They handball the responsibility of our health, to our doctor.
They handball the responsibility of our wealth, to the banks.
They handball the responsibility of our pride, to our children.
They handball the responsibility of our adult wellbeing, to our parents.
Look within you.
You fear taking responsibility because what if you’re not good enough? And, if you’re not good enough, you conclude with certainty that you will not be loved.
My challenge to you is to break this pattern and cycle in your psyche.
If you never ask, the answer will always be ‘no’, won’t it?
Well, if you never take on the responsibility, you’ll never get the chance to be good enough to, will you?
And you will continue to move through the world in an attempt to hide your version of ‘not good enough’, constantly fearing those you crave the love of will, in any moment, wake up to the fact that you are not worthy of their love.
Taking responsibility is the most empowering act of your life.
Take responsibility for all that you have the opportunity to control or at least influence.
Empower yourself in all 7 areas of life by taking responsibility for your knowledge, awareness and action towards your potential in each.
Take responsibility for your Health.
Take responsibility for your Career.
Take responsibility for your Relationships & Family.
Take responsibility for your Finances.
Take responsibility for your Personal Development.
Take responsibility for your Spirituality & Meaning.
Take responsibility for your Social Impact.
Sending you SO much LOVE & EMPOWERMENT today you absolute superstar of a human being you! 😊❤️🙏