Relaxing in the spa in Florence, the hot temperature makes me feel exausted, last weeks have been crazy. The muscles accuse yesterday’s acroyoga training and 3 hours of yoga!
It’s a good moment to make space, relax and let the last weeks go...
In the silence, I realise that I want a massage.
There are so many things we can do alone. Yoga, painting, sleeping, travelling. And honestly most of them are better if you do it by yourself. But you can’t massage yourself.
Well, you can. But you never completely relax if a group of your muscles is working to release other muscles!
So you definitely need a partner to give and receive massages.
And I wonder why, when I was a child, instead of telling me “you need a man to travel, marry, have sex/children” none of my teachers, family or movies told me another story.
The story is:
“Little girl, what you still don’t know is that you and your partner can touch each other’s body like an unexplored wild mountain. One day you will lose yourself into his/her eyes and discover the pleasure in the way to sex, not in the sex itself.”
Wow. Isn’t it a much more appealing way to talk about love and sex to children??
Before having sensational sex and instead of controlling each other, have you ever look into his/her eyes for 5 minutes??
(This is a powerful tatraka exercise, soooo hard and deep!)
Explore his/her body with curiosity, touch his/her skin with respect, walk into his/her world as you would do in a holy temple, align your breathes and only after all this you can say you are starting to understand her/him.
Yes, this is more than sex. is something you can’t do alone.