You will always be too something to someone: too open, too loud, too quiet, too soft, too harsh, too kind, too opinionated, too big, too thin, too ambitious, too keen, too loving, too safe, too edgy ... the list goes on and on.
But rounding out your edges means you lose your edge - your essence, your everything.
Be everything you want to be - and if you want to, then be more.
But please don't ever try to conform to someone else's ideals, don't dim your light to fit in with the world.
It's worth remembering that you cannot ever be 'too you'... And all the things that someone thinks are too much are all the special things that make you exactly who you are, exactly who you are meant to be!! This doesn't in anyway mean there isn't room for changes - you just make those changes for yourself.
Figure out who you are, figure out your own faults, figure out the things you could do differently and make the changes based on who you wish to become ... not who the world wants you moulded into!
I'm a work in progress in the art of "giving less of a shit" ... but I can vouch for this - my happiness, my confidence, my capacity for love, my strength, my power - they all skyrocket when I am being 100% ME.