• DAY 14 •
Here’s to Day 14 of my #28dayselflovediet ( I skipped five days, because A - emotional mess and B - taking care of yourself mentally is necessary and self love! )
This bitch right here is the hardest to post for some reason... I have always struggled to fall in love with my tummy... this side view has bothered the heck out of me.
But for reasons not widely known.(Maybe someday) I can’t feel ambivalent toward this part of myself anymore.
This belly has been the resting place for a head that wears the crown. This belly will one day carry my babies, this belly might be flabby, but boy is this belly so much more.
I can tell you how I used to be uber embarrassed to go get a wax... I mean how mortifying when the technician says “ Ma’am please lift up your belly. “ and imagine what oral will be like?! 🤣😂🤣
That’s just it though, no two people are the same. And so what if you’ve got a carport for your Ferrari or in my case VW Bug, this pot belly still gives good lov’in ... So chin up ( yes both of them, don’t hold out on me) buttercup and don’t let something you perceive as a flaw stand in the way of you experiencing all of life’s joys!
Every single part of you is worthy and whole and is deserving of your unyielding love and devotion and kindness.
There is no such thing as getting RID of fear, it’s always going to be there, lingering. It’s about MOVING forward DESPITE it!
‘The me that you see today, is loved. The me that you’ll see tomorrow will still be loved. No if’s or but’s’
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