Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you. Accept that some relationships and things in your life is toxic and be willing to close those chapters. People will leave. I've had friends come. Friends leave. Friends who stayed for a while. But one thing I've learned is that it becomes unhealthy to force a relationship. Every person or event in my life served a purpose, and the same goes for you. Maybe you learned how to love, how to give, how to feel pain deep inside your soul, how to fall apart and put yourself back together again. And those are all GOOD things. You learned your own strength, your resilience, your courage, and your capacity to love, and I'm all the more proud of you for it. Adversities of life are intended to make us better, not bitter.
This life is a fantastic, crazy mess and believe it or not you cannot control everything. "Maybe I should've..", "Maybe I could've..", "Maybe if I had just..". No. Stop. Yes, maybe in a different life things may have turned out differently, but you don't know that. And that's okay. someday you will be thankful for the temporary failure in a particular direction. Let it go. and move on. When one door closes, another one always open. The next crazy adventure is waiting right around the corner.
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